Comments on: More random “stuff”

By: ccap

ccap — Sat, 06 May 2006 16:34:09 +0000

I’m just so very sorry. Sometimes life doesn’t seem fair.

By: Blackbeltmama

Blackbeltmama — Sat, 06 May 2006 04:16:09 +0000

Jody,

I just sat here with my husband and looked this up. Check out this link: http://www.clinicaltrials.gov/ct/show/NCT00059306?order=2
They are recruiting for this study in San Antonio TX.

By: Blackbeltmama

Blackbeltmama — Sat, 06 May 2006 04:08:46 +0000

You seem like the type who wants to find out more info about what happened. My husband works in clinical research. There is a website: http://www.clinicaltrials.gov. Maybe check it out. There are a lot of new treatments and preventative things out there. You never know. Hang in there.

By: Mel

Mel — Fri, 05 May 2006 23:46:36 +0000

I think you’re responding as any normal woman would. Hang in there.

By: Jamie

Jamie — Fri, 05 May 2006 21:04:09 +0000

((HUGS)) If you need to vent, you’re welcome to email me

By: Jodi

Jodi — Fri, 05 May 2006 20:40:23 +0000

(((BIG HUGS JODY)))

I can only imagine the thoughts that must be running amuck in your head now.
I hope and pray that the what-if’s don’t become your life anytime soon.

Just stay close (but do let him eat) and love each other.

By: oshee

oshee — Fri, 05 May 2006 20:31:10 +0000

I am going to make a suggestion, but I admit to barely knowing you, so you can take my advice with a grain of salt if necessary.

You ought to go find someone to talk to. A professional someone. Everything you are feeling is NORMAL and NATURAL in your circumstances. The problem is that you also need to be there for your husband and be there for you children. It sounds so much like you are having trouble even being there for yourself. So, if you go talk with a counselor and get all your feeling out you may just get some helpful suggestions back on how to deal with the grieving without driving your husband completely nuts. Find someone you can lean on, so that you can stand tall and support those who need to lean on you.

What you are dealing with is so amazingly scary. As I’ve said before in my comments here, I can’t imagine losing my husband. I can’t image him even being seriously ill. It tears at my heart that you are faced with these challenges.

My prayers continue to be there for you and your family.

By: jenifer_4

jenifer_4 — Fri, 05 May 2006 18:58:16 +0000

Awww i wish i lived neer by you i run offer their and give you a big old hug and do what ever you need so you and Bill could hang out for awhile….i remeber when i was around 5 and my dad going to the hospital ….i realy dont know why he went but he stayed their for a week or 2 i know he could have lost his life and ….seeing life with out him is just not possible he makes us all laugh and cry…

By: LammyAnn

LammyAnn — Fri, 05 May 2006 18:42:18 +0000

You remind me of me, when my husband when through
a life threatening situation… when I actually had to
contemplate the “what if’s”. NEVER begrudge your time
to grieve and be scared. Never begrudge your time
to feel sad and ‘poor me’.
sorry for the lecture…
just know you are entitled to be scared and frustrated
and nervous.
I’m so sorry for all that you are going through at this
time of your life.
I always feel like when these things happen to me that
the world should stop… or at the very least.. slow
down.
You are still in my prayers girl. I’m so sorry.
Hugs